Trauma-informed support for people navigating life after religious trauma, cults, and high-control groups.

Coaching

Individual Sessions-Online

RELIGIOUS TRAUMA & CULT RECOVERY

Understanding how coercion, manipulation, and control worked

Processing fear-based beliefs and spiritual abuse

Recovering from shame, betrayal, and gaslighting

Healing from complex grief and religious CPTSD

Navigating shunning, family estrangement, and isolation

Rebuilding identity after high-control faith environments

Restoring autonomy and learning to trust yourself again

Processing deconstruction and faith transition

Rebuilding trust in relationships and community

Finding stability and creating a life on your own terms

Working through triggers, setbacks, and the long tail of recovery

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This is a space where you can:

  • Unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) messages you were taught in church or coercive systems

  • Understand how language and beliefs shaped your nervous system, worldview, and sense of self

  • Reconnect (or connect for the first time) with your values and sense of agency

  • Process grief, shame, and identity loss

  • Imagine life beyond survival, even if that feels a long way off

This is not about fixing you. It’s about walking with you as you recover trust in yourself and reclaim the parts of you that were silenced,

shamed, or lost.

50-minute session: $160


90-minute session: $200

Sessions are held online

Concession places are limited. Please enquire.

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Coaching Packages

  • What it is: A focused 3-session container for people who need to make sense of what happened in their church or group and figure out their next steps without committing to long-term work.

    Who it's for:

    • Something felt wrong in your church or group but you can't quite name what it was

    • You're questioning whether what you experienced was normal or harmful

    • You feel controlled, watched, or like you can't leave without consequences

    • You're trying to figure out if you should stay, leave, or how to cope with the fallout if you've already left

    • You need someone who gets it to help you see clearly

    What's included:

    • 3 x 60-minute 1:1 sessions (fortnightly over 6 weeks)

    • 3 fortnightly emails between sessions with reflections and support

    • Reflection sheet after each session to deepen the work between sessions

    • Red Flag / Green Flag Coercive Control Checklist

    Investment:

    • $450 (pay-in-full)

    • or 2 monthly payments of $230

    How to enquire: A brief 15-minute call is required before booking to discuss your situation and ensure this package is the right fit for where you are. BOOK HERE

  • What it is: A 3-month 1:1 coaching container for people actively rebuilding identity, relationships, and life after leaving or distancing from a church or group that caused harm.

    Who it's for:

    • You've left (or are leaving) and you don't know who you are anymore

    • Everything you were taught feels like a lie but you're not sure what's true

    • You're grieving the community, the certainty, the version of yourself you used to be

    • People you love may still be in the group and it's tearing you apart

    • You feel shame, confusion, or anger and you need help processing what actually happened

    • You want to understand why you stayed so long

    What's included:

    • 6 x 60-minute 1:1 sessions (fortnightly over 3 months)

    • 6 fortnightly emails between sessions with reflections and support

    • Reflection sheet after each session to support processing between sessions

    • The Spectrum Tool: Understanding healthy to harmful groups

    • The Control Web Diagram: Mapping isolation, information control, surveillance, and dependency tactics in groups

    • "It Wasn't Your Fault" Handout: Why intelligent people end up in high-control groups

    • Red Flag / Green Flag Coercive Control Checklist

    • Personal Boundary Template for navigating spaces post-harm

    Investment:

    • $900 (pay-in-full)

    • or 3 monthly payments of $310

    How to enquire: A full 60-minute consultation session is required before booking. This is to ensure we're a good fit and that this package meets your needs. The consultation fee is $160 and is deducted from your package cost if you proceed. BOOK HERE

  • What it is: A 12-month immersive 1:1 coaching container for people doing deep, long-term recovery work after years in a high-control or cultic church, group, or spiritually abusive environment.

    Who it's for:

    • You were in the group for years (or grew up in it) and the harm runs deep

    • You're being shunned, cut off from family, or facing ongoing pressure to come back

    • You're trying to rebuild your entire life while navigating every day survival

    • You thought you'd left but you're realising the beliefs and control patterns are still affecting how you think, relate, and make decisions

    • You need more than a few months to untangle everything and you want someone walking alongside you the whole way

    • You're wanting to move from crisis management to sustained recovery

    What's included:

    • 24 x 60-minute 1:1 sessions (fortnightly over 12 months)

    • 24 fortnightly emails between sessions with reflections and support

    • Reflection sheet after each session to support processing between sessions

    • All recovery tools and resources from Rebuild package, plus:

    • Customised recovery roadmap tailored to your situation (whether you were recruited as an adult or grew up in the group, sect-specific dynamics, your unique exit context)

    • Guidance on navigating shunning, family estrangement, and social reintegration after high-control groups

    • Personalised debrief document at package end

    Investment:

    • $3,360 (pay-in-full)

    • or 12 monthly payments of $290

    How to enquire: A full 60-minute consultation session is required before booking. This is to ensure we're a good fit and that this package meets your needs. The consultation fee is $160 and is deducted from your package cost if you proceed. BOOK HERE

Longer-term containers for people who would like more than a single session. These packages give you consistent support, space to process, and the tools to rebuild after high-control experiences.